TLDR: Don’t ask “what’s wrong with me?” but instead, “what system will will help me create what I want?”
The key takeaway here is not that psychology is bad, but dwelling too much into it can be a waste of time.
What I have found is that what most people need is a better system for how to improve their life, and looking at the systems they employ will often reveal the problems that they’re experiencing.
Spending too much time on the why, in the psychology underneath the actions, while interesting, is counterproductive. The systems paradigm shifts attention away from inside the head (psychology and the mind) toward the world outside the head, the world of action.




